new hair color

so I am contemplating a new hair color but i'm not sure what it should be.

Unfortunately, due to my having very light blond facial hair, eyebrows, body hair and the like I am pretty much limited to only a few shade variation from normal before it begins to look really fake... not to say I haven't gone dark before but it look somewhat off... kinda like a reverse ricky s. (for those of you i went to school with) ... I do have to say though that the dark hair makes my stunning blue eyes pop to a sexy degree... hehe

SO I am looking for opinions. I was thinking maybe a multi color might work better like darker in the back underneath, lighter on top or is that too feminine (a la carrier bradshaw)

so let me know what you think...

In the same vein I really need to take an after picture so i can post for you all to see me after the pretty major hair chop.. perhaps tonight.. and it could possibly help with the suggestions i am lookin to get.